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*oonlightDrive70
writes:Hey, my girlfriend thinks I have the hots for a girl at our uni that I get on ok with and now I feel like she is being a bit rude to this girl who hasnt done anything wrong really.I can admit that we are both pretty comfortable around each other but there is NO chance of us hooking up just because I really love my girlfriend.The thing is she was out with all of us yesterday amd my g/f wasnt feeling well. We still went out tho as my friend haf traveled to go see the dj set we were going to (it was the lead singer of CSS)but my gf didnt wanna dance so me and my pal were dancing all night and the girl was dancing with us. This and the fact that the girl put her hand in ma pocket to get something. this has really got me in the mud man, any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
Well I can see how your girlfriend must feel, you are being a little insensitive.
If she was feeling unwell why didn't you let your pal and this girl go and dance together? You could have sat with her for a while or got your pal to sit with her, or got your girlfriend to sit with her. If you had taken turns she would have got to know your friends and felt like you cared.
It's fine for you to have female friends but you HAVE to show your girlfriend that she always comes first to you. I have a male friend that my husband sometimes get jealous about, so when ever he starts getting a bit funny I will just go up to him, kiss his face off and look into his eyes and tell him how he means the world to me and nothing else will ever come close to what we have.
It's just about reassuring her.
Also get your girlfriend and girl pal to spend some time with you together... take them out shopping and they will be mates by the end of the day and you'll be left carrying the bags, but much happier for it.
Good Luck!! xx
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