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My friends were looking out for me and now this guy I like is mad with me for not sticking up for him, what shall I do??

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Question - (15 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I was in a really aquad position. Me and a boy like eachother at school. My two friends have just argued with this boy saying he spends too much time with another girl who fancies him. He was saying he hasn't spoke to her in ages and one of my friends was saying he has. Also a silly girl said to me 'he said will you go out with him' and my friends asked this boy if he was being serious. they said he said yes. I asked him about it later on msn and he said he didnt say yes it was that girl messing about. Anyway. I got added to their argument and said 'damn what am i doing here -.-' because i didn't want to get involved or pick sides. Later i exited the convosation. The lad I liked was angry at me because I didn't stick up for him. So in a single convosation. I told one of my friends it was that silly girl who asked him out for me. Then to my other friend I said I hadn't seen him with the girl who likes him in ages. But that obviously wasn't good enough for him. But how could I have stuck up for him when my friends were looking out for me. I told them not to argue. But hes angry with me also. When he went offline he just said cya. no kisses. no nothing. Now i dont know what to do. Help me please

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008):

Hi there,

If you really like this lad then why dont you ask him out yourself. if you want something if life you have to get it yourself, no one will do it for you. He may then think that you a mature and realise that you werent in on anything that your mates said to him. also your freinds are not friends if they do things that make you feel the way you did after the row.

Hope this helps x

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