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writes:I took my friends to our vacation villa last summer, after that they kept me asking to buy things for them. Once i refused and they threatend to spread rumours about me, so i had to keep on buying them stuff, what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 First of all these people are not your friends there using you, secondly stop buying them stuff tell your parents or a teacher people dont tend to listen to rumours and they never last long dont let these people walk all over you its not fair!
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Stop buying them stuff. Rumors will go away. It stings when you hear stuff about you but they're only words. Real friends will ignore the rumors and still be your friend.
Sorry you have fake stinky friends.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 If you have done nothing wrong , why should you be scared of them?
Don't play their games. They are blackmailing you .
Stand firm and tell your parents if they do that.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (2 March 2008):
 I agree with LJ totally, these people are not your friends, hard that maybe to admit they are just using you to get things. There are people out there who will value you for who you are and not take advantage of you like this and you need to find them; if your friends spread rumours then just fight back with the truth, don't get into tit-for-tat and start spreading stuff about them. Good luck :).
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reader, soldolly +, writes (2 March 2008):
 My heart goes out to you, you must be living a nightmare. If you have any friend that didn't go to the villa with you tell them what the others are up to so if rumours do start someone will know them for what they are, spite and maybe jelousy. Start backing off from these so called friends, ditch them as quick as you can, I'm sure you will make new, decent friends quickly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): This is so horrible of them honey! Tell them where to stick it, because they're obviously not real friends to you. There's so many other lovely people out there that wouldn't just take you for granted, so dont put up with this. Tell them they're being really mean and should stop it right now or you're just not going to bother with them. Honestly, they're not worth it if this is what they are like with you. You deserve more. And if they DO spread rumours about you, either spread them back, or just make sure you tell as many people as possible that they are not true. You've got to stand up to them honey, its not nice. You'll be in my thoughts ok, good luck.
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