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writes:Hey Guys! Okay so my friend has been going out with this guy for a little more than 4moths. Me and my friend aren't really that close we have 1 class together. We talk but where not that close so yesterday there was a sub for my social studies class and her boyfriend in that class with me. I haven't really talked to him until that day but we where flirting and jokeing around lots of physical contact. So today in social studies class i hear him tell his friend that he gonna break up with today or tomorrow and he saw me listening i think he likes me. I like him to tell you the truth. If he asks me out what should i do miss a chance to fall in love or miss a chance to keep a friendship that's not that big i mean i really don't wanna hurt her what do i do?
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reader, BunnyAce +, writes (16 November 2010):
 So let's look at the facts: while dating someone he was flirting with you mentally and physically. Do you think this is someone you should date? It is quite possible that this flirty guy with flirt his way throughout his remaining years of highschool. Be the better person and say no if he shows interest. This will show others that you are loyal with any type of friend, and it will also cause other guys to wonder if ud say yes to them if they asked you out (a male ego thing). I am sure that this flirty guy will also think higher of u and who knows, maybe he'll learn a thing or two about jumping around from girl to girl. Us females should stick together in situations like these.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 you want me to be honest? I think that no matter how close of a friend she is you shouldnt do it, hunny it will hurt her and i know that it isnt fair on you either but you dont want everyone in your class to turn on you and think of you as the girl that steals a boyfriend from one of her friends, you will regret this later on in life believe me, no boy is worth anything over a friend, believe me i made that mistake when i was younger i went out with a fella that i knew my friend liked him and believe me i got my karma a few years later for doing that in the worst possible way. There will be plenty of other guys out there, let this one go.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 November 2010):
 You're jumping ahead of yourself, you don't even know for a fact he's going to dump her let alone ask you out next. If you don't want to hurt her then don't. Your friend is going to be rather distraught if he does break up with her, then you will have to play the role of a good friend and help her cope. Not go for her sloppy seconds.
How much do you cherish this friendship? Your friend or a guy, who's to say he won't dump you eventually just like he's going to do her.
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