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writes:hi well i have been going out with my boyfriend for around 5 months now and i really love him, but my friend kinda forced me to kiss this other boy. i really didnt want to but she left us alone. i thought we were just friends. he made a move on me. i tried to pull away but he had to big of a grip on me. now my other friend is forcing me to tell my boyfriend. but i really dont want to cause it didnt mean anything an i dont want him to worrie over it i really dont want to lose him! but the question is do you think i should tell him?? please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice i'll tell him when we meet nxt :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): Ok... Let's get this straight... You did not kiss this other guy... He kissed you right? But you did not kiss him back?
That's terrible! You must be feeling violated!
If you don't tell your boyfriend I have a feeling that your second friend (the one who wants you to tell him) will tell him for you. This would be a worse case scenario. You might loose your boyfriend if this happens. You should tell him as soon as possible. Make sure you get your story straight, tell him someone else kissed but you did not kiss them back, that you pulled away, but he manages to get you. Tell him that you wish it hadn’t happened, but make sure he knows that it was not you and that you didn’t kiss this guy back.
I don’t understand how your friend forced you to kiss this guy. Is there more to this story? You can email me here if you like and take me through the rest of it… I’d really like to help you out and make sure that you’re ok.
I'm sorry you're so torn up by it... It must be very confusing for you.
Good Luck. Emivia. x
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reader, sarahisgreat123  +, writes (5 June 2008):
i totally understand your situation... its really hard... but the worst thing that can happen is that your bf will find out from someone else and then you will most definitely loose him...
if I were you I would tell him and just let him know how incredibly sorry you are and that it didnt mean anything... hopefully he will understand
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