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My friend accused me of theft, then of lying about things. Can we patch up the friendship?

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Question - (12 March 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2006)
A male United Kingdom, *4u04 writes:

I have recently fell out with my best friend because when we were drunk, she accused me of stealing some money from her. I was really hurt and haven't spoken to her since.

This isn't the first occasion where she has hurt me. An earlier incident happened when she said all I do is lie about everything. There was an element of truth in it because I did used to make stuff up to sound more interesting, which I have now stopped as I've come to my senses. But do I dismiss the recent accusation as a drunken mistake and try to repair my friendship with the feeling that she thinks I'm stealing from her running through my head whenever I see her? I've had about all I can take of her pettiness.

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A male reader, d4u04 United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2006):

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d4u04 agony auntthank you, that's vry good advice, update: we are repairing the friendship step by step but with a new outlook on it on my part, because i used to be basically her doormat and I just used to accept that as the way our friendship worked but now i've woken up and things are getting better each time we talk x

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A female reader, addison +, writes (13 March 2006):

addison agony auntleave the friendship. To me it sounds as though it has run its course, yet you have bothered to write about it on here so it is affecting you. You need to address this issue with her and tell her how you are feeling and how you think it could be damaging your friendship. A true friend would listen and try to work through it with you

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