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My fling is now sending me naked pics of himself?

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Question - (18 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

This guy who I had a fling with a few months ago has suddenly decided to get in contact with me in a hope to get with me again. Now he has sent me naked pictures of himself.

I mean we only met once and he seemed really nice the non sleazy guy. We ended up going home together and well you know had sex.

We have not got together since but just chat on instant message all the time and now are chats have got so dirty, he is sending naked pics of himself.

I had know idea he was like that. Has anyone else experienced this.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

Sounds like someone to stay way from. I have plenty of chick friends, (and I am a real cool guy) if any of them had a guy sending them naked pictures, I'd say delete and don't talk to him. (what kind of a clown sends naked photos to a girl?- a hard up clown)

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (18 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntWell if you don't want him to tell him to stop it.

It happens a lot, for some reason some people seem to think it is sex not realizing that only a few people are beautiful naked and none of them are male.

He thinks this is a way to seduce you, if he is wrong tell him to piss off.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

You slept with him on first date. Now you wonder why he's acting like it's sex on tap?

If you talk on instant message, it is you that is encouraging him. Why not break contact? Do you secretly like the attention.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

Personally I have not experienced something like this, I am aware of poeple who have.

My adivise to you is to "block" this guy from sending messages to you (if you can); otherwise,ignore his messages and forget about him and allof it.

Ignore him. MOVE ON!

Bad experience, but PLEASE, be more carefull in future; do some reference checks on people you meet via the internet, before meeting or getting involved. Hope you had protected sex; if not, be safe and have yourself tested; this guy does not sound very "safe".

Sorry, probably not what you wnated to hear, but rather safe then sorry!

Good luck in future!

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