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My fiance arranged a meeting for he and I without consulting me first. It seems my opinion doesn't matter. Am I wrong to feel hurt and upset by this?

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Question - (17 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2007)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

im currently engaged to my fiance of 4yrs,lately hes been distant,i believed we had a good relationship until the other day when he decided to arrange a meeting and agreed,he consulted me after he`d done this,am i wrong to be hurt and upset that he had not discussed this with me first and asked what i thought,seems my opinion doesn't matter.

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (17 January 2007):

eddie agony auntWhat do you mean..... he arranged a meeting? It sounds more like a busness arrangement.

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (17 January 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntI don't get it. How do you arrange a meeting with someone and not tell them? Clue me in.

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A female reader, Jovial South Africa +, writes (17 January 2007):

Jovial agony aunti dont think this is a problem, unless he had been arranging a lot of them without consulting u and expects u to be there no matter how u feel or not considering ur other commitments. have u spoken to him about this? what is his say in this? if u dont mind please elaborate your post a bit, because it is not clear if this was a once off or a regular thing, if this meeting had a third party or it was just the two of you.

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