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writes:I am a 51 year old woman, divorced with two adult children. My father and I have never been close, but the situation grew even more stressed after my divorce. He goes to great lenghts to keep me from coming to visit. He tells my children mistakes I made as a child which I feel should come from me if anyone. And recently, he had lunch with my ex-husband and his new wife. Am I crazy? I feel like he doesn't love me...right or wrong??
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (27 September 2008):
I don't think you are crazy. I think your father is being horrible and I don't think he's going to change.For what ever reason, he has decided he doesn't want you.I would ask him straight why he is acting like this and why he seems to hate you.I know it's hard but if there is someone causing you pain, even when it's your own dad, you don't HAVE to keep them in your life.Give him a chance to change and if he makes it clear he's not interested then cut him out of your life. And tell your children that he says nasty things about you so not to believe what he says.Good Luck!! xx
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