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My ex won't send my stuff back!

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Question - (18 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *romiker writes:

Well I wrote my ex about wanting my stuff back tonight because its still over at her house the only thing is that it is a long distance relationship. In I have wrote her back about three times now about it in she wont send my stuff because she has no money so Im guessing Im not going to get it stuff back. But so today she wrote me back again her it is this is what she said in my msn.

"Ill send it back. I dont have money sorry. Im poor. Just paid off lots of shit. sorry i havent really been around much. Things are crazy here. Going to move soon. House is going on the market soon. I'm never home only to eat and sleep and my hotmail never works. sorry ive been busy"

Thats what she put in stuff it realy makes me mad because I left a $120 coat over there in hav of my stuff I wear so now I have to go out in buy a lot of stuff to wear. So why is she saying she is busy? why could she not just be like ok Im going to mail your stuff in I never want to talk to you again. In she send me a youtube video like some soft song about wanting some one to take her away? So does she want me back because two weeks ago she was having phone sex with me and saying she is missing me in stuff in sendind me pics of her. I know she wants me so why is she doing this to me Im lost about to move on and find some other girl??

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (18 October 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou again. Whatever I said in your last post still applies. I'm thinking you're wanting to get this girl back and not just your coat. You're not getting your coat back..it looks like she's hanging on to memories of you or she has some serious mental problems. It also sounds like you can't let this go with her. So make peace with her that you're probably not going to get your coat back for winter and stop emailing her, phone sex, etc because it's giving you false hope. Let her go and buy yourself a new coat.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010):

This brod is messin' with your head big time i e playing games. I play the joker card around here once in awhile but thats it ... im not foolin here. Women like this are immature and often very insecure. She sounds very dishonest and she's using your stuff to mess with you. If I were you bro, they are just items, they can be replaced and after all why would you want them? They'll remind you of her anyway. Because she's playing a game and being very immature thats enough for you thrown down your hand and say Im not playing with this. Block her out, her email, phone, etc. She'll try to contact you and manipulate you probably. Be safe and cut all ties and recover so you can find another girl. Good luck.

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