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writes:i am 34yrs old,when i was 16yrs old i had a wonderful relationship with a lovely guy for about a year!18yrs later i still think about him and every time i see him i want to run over to him and ask him can we carry on from where we left off.he's unhappily married and i am in a dead end relationship!but guess what'i dont have the guts to ask anything'!! help, it's driving me mad. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Sadly people change and grow up and 18 years is a long time so maybe he's not the same as he was back then.
Leave things be for the moment and try and move on with your own life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Please don't do anything. I am far from being married but he has made a lifetime commitment to this woman - they make not be deeply in love but they once were and while to you this is a wonderful possibility of rekindling an old flame such an act would be one of the most devastating moments in his wifes life.If he decides to end things in due time, then jump in but for now your lack of guts is the least of your problems, your lack of morality however is quite an issue.
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