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writes: my boyfriend and i havent been dating long. He and i are still virgins and both of us are very scared of having sex. How can we relax enough to have sex without being scared that were doing something wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): sex isnt something to rush. if you just do it for the sake of it you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
if you havent been with this guy long are you sure you feel enough for him to give such a precious gift such as your virginity to him?
if your scared i suggest you wait a while, get to know the guy.. dont make the mistake of rushing it, it has to be enjoyable and wanted by both parties.
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female
reader, Tinkz  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 if you are scared you shouldn't be doing it!
If you haven't been dating long why are you thinking about it!
Sex is something thing that is supposed to be special!
But if you want to do it the best way to relax is to take everything slow, have dinner, watch a movie, do things that make you relax around each other! Think about it this way if you are both virgins you are equally clueless that way you won't feel bad with what you doing and he shouldn't feel bad! you can both help each other by telling each other what feels good and what doesn't!
Be safe!
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female
reader, Tinkz +, writes (15 January 2007):
if you are scared you shouldn't be doing it!
If you haven't been dating long why are you thinking about it!
Sex is something thing that is supposed to be special!
But if you want to do it the best way to relax is to take everything slow, have dinner, watch a movie, do things that make you relax around each other! Think about it this way if you are both virgins you are equally clueless that way you won't feel bad with what you doing and he shouldn't feel bad! you can both help each other by telling each other what feels good and what doesn't!
Be safe!
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female
reader, cd206  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Are you sure you're both ready if you're this worried about it? It seems to me that if you're both virgins you won't know if you're doing it wrong anyway. Take it slowly. Get to know each others' bodies before rushing headlong into sex. Teach him how you like to be pleasured and let him teach you. The rest should come easy after that. Good luck.
CD
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