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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello aunts! I broke up with my girlfriend about three weeks ago. I know it was a mistake and I wanted to fix it and be with her again but she said no. Now we are still living in a same flat because she has nowhere to go and I am not evil enough to throw her out. But that’s not the problem. The problem is that I believe she is in love again with the guy that she liked even when we were together. Now she talks to him on the phone all the time and it’s just killing me. I know that I have no rights to do anything about it but it’s just killing me. I still love her and want to get back with her. We had a wonderful relationship. Why did she get over me so soon?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): Ok.. step one. Kick Her Out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): She sounds insensitive. Although you haven't the heart to throw her out, it may be worth suggesting she starts to find a new place. Then you don't have to go through it every time she rings him up.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 Hi
I guess she is a bit screwed up in the head right now, because you 2 split and is on the rebound. All too common. If that is the case, they wont last. If she is in love with him, then i can only assume that she didnt love you in the first place, atleast not for a while. I cant honestly see someone falling out of love with one person and in love with someone else in the space of 3 weeks. It just doesnt happen like that the human brain.
Either way there isnt a lot you can do, and i would purchase a pair of balls and state to her that if she is already moving on, she needs to move on where she lives too, or you should, whichever is more suited to your rent/mortgage situation. Thats your right if its making you miserable. Which undertsandably it would.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 Could it just be your perceptions about her falling in love and getting over you ? You could be wrong.
She could be sad and heart broken and seeking solace and understanding from her friend.Or she could be punishing you for the break up.
If you have apologized and she says it is over, don't take her words for the final curtain!!!!!!
Keep wooing her and show that your love is unshakable and the fire will never die in your heart.Most woman like to be wooed or chased and it makes them feel important.
If you tried all your best and still short, then at least you won't regret losing her.
You may think you are banging your head on the wall but be persistent and keep knocking on her door till it breaks down..LOL!
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