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anonymous
writes:i am a 26 year old female, when i was 17 years old i started dating a boy, we were together almost two years, became *engaged*, but then at one point broke up....we have since moved to diffrent states and our lives have gone on, i got married and divorced and he has dated diffrent women. through the last 9 or so years i have thought about him a lot and we have stumbled into *contact* with eachother a few times (not really trying it seems to just happen). we recently once again came into contact. he is now engaged to a girl and they have a very rocky relationship (she has left him several times) and i've started to think maybe there is a reason our lives seem to keep crossing, maybe we were supposed to be together....my question is, even though he is engaged, should i bring this up to him ? do you believe in fate? or am i just being naive. thanks !
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 You could tell him that you are available and the door is always open for him if he wants to come to you. The ball would be at his feet. Leave everything to fate..
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 well first of all you need to consider the possibilty that he may really love this woman and want to marry her, but there also may be a chance that he is lying to himself. has there been any sign or anything that he may still have feeling for you?if you think that there may be, then you might wanna talk to him about it before he makes a mistake, if you dont think there have been any signs then you may need to come to terms with the fact that you were not meant to be. i hope this helps in some way, email me if you wanna talk x
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