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My ex got another girl pregnant and we are still sleeping together! What do I do?

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Question - (30 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend broke up on thanksgiving of last year. But we remained friends he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone but im still in love with him and I know he loves me. But lately he's been giving me mixed signals I still have a key to his house and he told me im always welcome to come wheneva I want. We still sleep together in fact we never stopped I love him so much but im scared to ask him how he feels about me im afraid he will turn me down but the worst thing of all he told me he got another girl pregnant and she's having his son I have his daughter

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (30 July 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntRight. He was willing to end the relationship, says he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you and got another girl pregnant.

But he loves you.

Yah, those are all the classics signs.

It is time for you to grow up.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008):

It sounds to me like you're willing to be his sex toy rather than be without him.

He's never gonna go back to wanting an exclusive relationship with you at this rate. Why would he want to give up something for you (the other girls) when he can have you for nothing right now?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008):

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with something of this magnitude. But in my personal option, you need to let this man go. That way he can take care of his son, with no other things on his mind. I know that you love him, but the best thing to do is think of his unbord child. The child has no choice in the deal. He needs to have the benefit of the doubt. Please know that I am truly sorry, and am praying for you.

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