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*indseyPainter
writes:I asked a question yesterday about how my ex had a way of coming into my life again after our breakups, since we have been on and off for a year. Well we haven't talked for a month since our breakup, but this morning I woke up and had a text from one of my ex-boyfriend’s friends that I have never met. He was like, “what is up my name is josh.” Then he told me that my ex boyfriend had given him my number, and told him that he should talk to me. I asked him why my ex thought we should talk and he said, “your ex said he thought you might be single and that we would get along.” Then I said, “that’s weird I have never had an ex boyfriend try to hook me up”, and he said, “I think he is trying to hook me up with you because I am trying to hook him up with one of my friends.” This hurt me because I am not over my ex. Well anyway, this guy sent me a picture of himself and he looked really bad not to be mean or anything, but I can't believe my ex would do this to me? Why is he doing this? We haven't talked in a month, since our last breakup. I know my ex isn't trying to hookup me up to do me a favor because he isn't the nicest guy you know. So I find this a little weird. What do you think is going on here? Also, my ex doesn't know I haven't moved on, since we haven't talked, so I am just confused.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (26 February 2011):
 I agree with GeeGee. I know you're still hurting, but have ZERO contact with either of these dingleberries and find a guy who will treat you right. You said you were "off again on again". Stop letting your ex use you. That is why he gave this other creep your number. He thinks you're easy to use!! That is NOT who you want to be. DEMAND the respect every human being deserves, and have nothing to do with these dudes.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Your ex is creep and you were probably just the first girl he thought of when this other creep asked him for a favor to hook him up with someone. Blow them both off. Your ex probably knew you would never go out with the guy and just did it to rattle your chain, don't let him get to you. Move on, you're better off without him.
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