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writes:Rite here we go... Me and my boyfriend were together for 6 months and I really loved him and when we finished we had a big bust up and fought and everything he even told me he hated me. On his 18th I texed him happy birthday trying not to be ignorant and at the weekend we started to argue and gradually started to speak and I really enjoyed his company then he said to me "you were the least person I expected to say happy birthday, don't get me wrong thanks for saying it" and I said " I really didn't want to be ignorant to you am fed up with it, we go on as if each other never walked the earth when we are near each other" he then said " am really glad you said happy birthday" and he had been seeing this girl the past few weeks and I heard they weren't seeing each other anymore and asked him why and he said "once I got your text saying happy birthday I realised that I can't hurt you anymore and decided not to go with her anymore" I felt really good that he done this but also really bad... I don't know if he still feels for me but I really do still love him and don't know what to do because every time I say it he says that unfortunately he doesn't feel the same but when I was talking to him he told me that anything he has been told since we finished he has hidden how he feels... Help?
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reader, Molly101  +, writes (23 March 2010):
OK, I been through that but in person kinda? Like i told my ex happy birthday but than he liked me but i had a bf ahah, but i think most definately he likes you!! but just keep talking to him before you tell him you like him. then get one of your or his friends and ask him if he likes you, & can you see if you can help about my relationship question! thanks :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): I might be a bit cynical but you should tread carefully. I'm not entirely convinced that he is being completely honest with you about not seeing the other girl because he can't hurt YOU anymore - I don't get that if he doesn't feel the same way as you that he can feel so strongly about not hurting you to break up another relationship if it is going so well - he could be trying to save face. Trust your instincts I say, he's telling you that he doesn't feel the same. You're both young. You just need to agree that it's not meant to be, agree to be friends and agree that you should both move on. Only then will you be able to.
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