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writes:I broke up with him and after not speaking for about 2 weeks we got back in contact. We met up about a week later and it went really well. We spoke a couple of times after that. Then, it was his birthday so I sent him a text wishing him a good day and saying I'd talk to him later. Well, that as over 24 hours ago and no response. What do you think is going on? I'm planning on calling tomorrow. Do you think there would be a reason for him to suddenly not wanna talk or is he just busy? I haven't called sooner because I thought he would be with his family for his birthday and didn't want to interrupt. Also, yes, I understand many people are against speaking to exs, but I'm doing the right thing for me :) promise!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2013): He was being friendly and polite. It didn't mean he wanted to get back with you. That's what you are hoping for. He stopped talking to you; because you're trying to pretend you're back together.
Try to move on. Not talking to you is silently telling you that it is still over. He doesn't want you back; but he has treated you nicely. Don't try to take advantage of that; or make it anything more than it is.
You'll only get hurt all the more.
It would be best to give things a rest, and not contact him at all. You need to set your mind to accept that he isn't coming back.
If you pretend it's okay, but it isn't, you will be crushed and disappointed.
Get on with your life, and treat all this as if you know it is completely over. Then you can start getting over him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2013): He won't return your calls I think he is ignoring you
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 August 2013):
 You are talking again. It could mean that the angry, hurt feelings had been processed and you could act civilized as friends. You could look back at the relationship with no regrets and move on. It doesn't have to mean you want to get back together. You could ask how his birthday went and if he doesn't respond then you can forget him forever.
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