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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,My ex boyfriend and I have been apart for 9 years now. We have a 9 year old son together. My ex has been with his girlfriend for 9 years and they have 3 children together. In September of 2009 my ex and I started talking again about our past. I also informed him that he son wanted to meet him. He mentioned to me that he still has feelings for me and that he misses kissing and holding me. He also mentioned that he wanted to sleep with me one more time without anyone finding out. I informed my ex that I would not sleep with him while he was with his girlfriend. Since then he has been taking his son every other weekend regularly. He's being a good dad. He works a lot and tries to spend as much time with his son when he can. My ex and I started to talk again in July. We have been sleeping with each other since July 14 of this year. My ex and I talk on a daily basis even when his girlfriend is home. He send me pictures of him all the time, and wants pictures of me. He says that he wants to be fwb until his girfriend starts snooping or asking if he is cheating on her. He wants to take pictures of me that way he can look at them all the time now and when the day comes we need to call being fwb quits he has them to look at and remember me by. What should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 September 2010):
Tragic. At first you did the right thing and didn't sleep with him. Then you did, and now he's having a great old time using you. He wants to take pictures of you that he will no doubt show to all his friends for a good laugh, he won't stop it until his girlfriend finds out. What a louse.
It never ceases to amaze me how women will lower themselves and accept this truly shabby treatment from crap men. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life being this guy's dirty sex toy, or would you rather be something more to someone else. What a total waste of your life. Worse, when this does come out, your reputation will look so bad, no one will want to come near you. Stop thinking of this crap ex, start thinking of yourself instead. You're being mocked by this guy, and when it stops you'll be the one left on your own in tears. Please go and find a better guy. Please.
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