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writes:I am so confused about ex girlfriend. She dump me about 10 months ago and our relation had only lasted for 1 day. After she had dumped me, I still kept trying to get her back because I really loved her due to some personal reasons but after 5 months of hard work I gave up because I believe there is no point to force someone to love me and I knew she had move on. I had not spoken to her for 4 months but after this summer holiday. Some of her friends are telling me that she miss or love me.I don't know does she loves me due to some reasons or she is just trying to muck me up or for other purposes. What shall I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): I am the original poster and I would like to add some additional information in order to seek for more advises.
Although I had given up after 5 months of hard work but she knew I still loved her because whenever I saw her I feel so shy and some of friends told her that I called her name during sleep talking. ( I had no idea I do sleep talking)
Furthermore, I really missed her in the summer but I could not see her so I sent a message to her and she knew I really missed her even though I did not point it directly to her since I am too shy in front of her.
When we are in school, we never talk to each other but we make a lot of eye contacts and we seems to know how each other feel but we are both too shy to face to each other.
Lastly, one of her friends who is a male and had never got involved in our relationship suddenly came up to me and said she really missed me in a serious way. Also, he said we should both hug each other in the cold for warmth in front of me and her.(That was unexpected and embarrassing.) These few days I have been kept quiet because I seriously don't know what to do.
Thanks for giving advises.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Sorry dear but that was one short relationship. So I don't see how she can love you when she hardly knows you and you only had a 24 relationship. I think you should continue to ignore her like you have been doing. You've moved on there's no need to backtrack to her to only go out with her for another 24 hours. She didn't give you a chance! So what makes she's going to really give you one this time?
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