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writes: i don't like my daughters boyfriend.he is not good for her.he argues with her everytime he is with her.shes is not allowed to see him...he calls all the time.morning noon and night.how can we make him go away..i know she love him but he verbally abuses her..now she says there just friends.i find it hard to beleive..make him go away. so she can find a boyfriend who is not a loser.what can we do to make her see..he cheats and lies also.she sees no wrong in him.looks straight ahead the straight line nothing outside..she is brainwashed.please help us. Reply to this Question
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reader, ST's mom  +, writes (5 May 2010):
Yes I agree, just be there for your daughter as much as possible. I am in the same boat, my daugther has been with hers for 7yrs if you can believe it, she does not have kids though. Thank the lord! Her boyfriend does not work though, does not lift a finger to do anything at all. He is rude and does not treat her well at all, I think he has physically abused her in the past but I don't know about now. The only way he knows how to earn money is by selling weed, so I'm hoping that by some miracle that he will be arrested and sent away without my daughter going down with him. She is the only one that works and pays for all the bills most of the time and I'm just beside myself as to what to do but I know that I can not force her to do anything, she has to do it on her own. You can encourage them in a positive way but you can't constantly ride her case about it because she will get angry and not want to be around you, so I try my best to accept him to get along with my daughter but I have told him off a couple of times and I will not go over to my daughters house that often cause I do not want to put up with or be around her boyfriend. My sister was in an abusive marriage for 20 something yrs, I just hope that for our daughter's sake, that it does not take them that long to wake up in time to get away from their boyfriends for good. But I do know that the only thing that helps if you believe in god is Prayer, pray constantly and god will answer if you just have patience and faith. It just takes time though. God bless you and your family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): I have the same problem and I dont have an answer. What do we have to do tie our daughters up to keep them from making a huge mistake?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): I can't stand my daughters boyfriend he is a no good thug who has a criminal record no job and no means too support my daughter I tried telling her to ge away from him but it was to late now she has a criminal case her baby was taken in chid protective services and now we are fighting to get him back yet she still wants to be in contact with him I don't know what its going to takwe to open her eyes I hope something will let her she like God this case she got should ave he is older than her she is only 21 I hate him
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