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writes: Dear aunts. im 21 male never been with a woman or a man, dont no who or what i want, or if gay or bi should i go out and get together with someone have some fun and try out which one? where can i go to be safe, and now who i want. Reply to this Question
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reader, lboy  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 the best way to solve this problem in my view is to go out and just take a sample and see if you like it tyhen it will be easier to decide, i did the same thing and now i know that i'm bi.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): I am a gay male and never had sex until I was almost 21. Deep down I knew I was gay but I guess was partially in denial and thinking maybe I was bi or just confused which was why I had never had sex. I was definiately just gay and eventually realised this.
If you are really that unsure you are probably bi. At any rate perhaps you already have a resolution and that is to try both and see how you feel.
That said I feel that if you think hard enough you will be able to work out what you are without having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): What catches your eye, or makes you turn and look - a good looking man or a good looking woman? If it is a man you're probably gay, if a woman you're probably straight, and if it is both then perhaps your bi. The fact that you don't seem to know may be suggestive that you're atrracted to both?
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 I think this question is probably a goof, but I'll answer it anyway.
I think everyone figures out who they are attracted to by the time they are five years old. I know I used to get a woody at the sight of my 15 year old female cousin when I was 5. . . she was hot!
If you're not sure at your age, go to a nice strip club. If the sight of a gorgeous girl taking her clothes off doesn't turn you on. . . you're gay. Good luck.
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