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writes:Every time i see my crush he makes fun of me. He calls me ugly and 'manvoice. He is even getting his friends in on it. How do i get him to stop? How do i know if he likes me back?Please put answers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2017): I have to say, they've got to be pretty immature to make fun of you.
If it starts to happen more and more, then stand up to them and stop them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2017): My friend told my crush i liked him and now he just makes fun of me and it herts my feeling to know boys are that cruel. The way I sorted it was by sticking by my friends and try to ignored him but if I can't I kick him, and he should soon get bored and leave you alone.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  + ♥, writes (15 March 2010):
 Hi princess,
Oh the agony of being 13-ish. Crushes and insecurity, and boys who barely know you exist. And even if they did like you they wouldn't know what to do about it. In a few years he will be kicking himself for the fool he is now. But , by then you will be on to someone else, probably the 4th or 5th in a string of someone others. Please don't feel that I am putting you down, Just trying to help you take the long view. I know that your feelings are very real.
OK to answer your specific questions in opposite order: How do I know if he likes me back? He is doing his best to create distance between you right now and he is not being nice about it. That is not the action of someone who desires to spend time with you. He is probably embarrassed by the attention that you are giving him. He is trying to get you to stop. How do you get him to stop? Ignore him, let it be known that it is over for you. This will take the pressure off him and he won't feel the need to save face by putting you down.
One other thing you should know, and you should hear it from a man so you will believe it. Manvoice (or a rich Alto or Tenor) is incredibly sexy. Just listing to her talk is a turn on. There is way too much focus on stuck up sopranos.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Sorry, but it does not sound like he likes you to be treating you like this. I know sometimes young immaure guys act the opposite to cover their feelings but I think the remarks are too scathing for it to be a cover up.
In any case, even if he did, he would not date you coz it would mean having to stand up to all his friends and the ribbing they would then give him and frankly he sounds too immature to do that even if he wanted to.
I really don't understand tho why you are not offended by him and completely turned off.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (15 March 2010):
 If he does like you he is far to immature to have a gf at the moment. If you want him to stop you can try a witty comback that will have his friends laughing at him, now this may either make him like you or really hate you.
If you want to go that route then try something like
-you sure pay alot of attention to the "ugly" girl
-we should totally date then atleast one of us would have a mans voices (I'm not saying that you do, its just for the joke)
In the end though I don't think he's right for you. Even at his (assumed) age guys are usually way passed the make fun of girls we like stage. Standing up to him in one way or another is the best way to get him to stop and you don't have to say anything like what was stated if you are not fully comfortable with doing it, I do not know what kind of personality you have. If you can't stand with your joke 100% and stay confident it will not work, I know that from experience.
Good luck to you.
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