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writes:i have got a cousin who is madly in love with me. i am currently single. he is my 4th cousin. he is always doing things in my favor. i know he is really in love with me. but i don't know exactly what i should do since i don't love him but i like him. whenever am at his place he is always after me asking me if i need something, if i want to go somewhere, etc..it so happened once we got into a petty fight. i back replied him very rudely. i know i was at fault. and i made him really angry. he said that am his. and he won't let me do any wrong thing. we both were in anger and he act as he want to rape me. however, when i was close to him and cannot move he whispered :- " what do you think i'll rape you? no i won't because i love you. and we don't hurt the one we love" . then he went away with anger. but after a few hours he came back home. i was at his place. he was cooled down and did not speak anything of what had happened.sometimes i think i torment him too much.what do you think? should i accept him"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): I got a real good laugh off of this because you have a real good sense of humor.
“he is my 4th cousin.” is actually not a relative of yours. You see his as a close cousin and so does the people that advise you here, but he”s a very distant cousin. Don’t let the word cousin throw you off, you need to go through 6 generation of combination to get a 4th cousin. Here:
http://www.cousincouples.com/?page=relation
“we both were in anger and he act as he want to rape me. however, when i was close to him and cannot move he whispered :- " what do you think i'll rape you? no i won't because i love you. and we don't hurt the one we love"” You hurt him here, He wants to be your guy and protector, yet you told him that you think he will rape you. I think he's giving you those pity eyes hoping you would change your mind but you looking at it as dirty.
“sometimes i think i torment him too much.” yes it torches when its one-sided, but your doing notHing wrong. Unless you taking advantage of the situation. Don't listen to these people that doesn't know or understand a family tree. They're fixed on the word cousin and that’s all. Your guy isn't really a relative.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): i think you need to stop talking to this person completely and move on. you are in a dangerous and weird situation. i mean.... you only have one life are you really gonna screw it up hanging out with your cousin who is obviously disturbed? What guy would want to be with you after that? Geeeeeze... move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): Sounds like a bit of a psychopath tbh, blood cousin or married cousin, it doesn't matter. It's just somewhere you don't go. Your still young and it maybe just a stupid crush thing, you should tell someone in your family.
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