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writes:OKay i am 16 an cousin is 18. My cousin has been acting a bit weird lately. He was never like so playful since i knew him. But now i think he has changed. He s being too playful. He have been telling me that he loves me then when i gave him a surprisd face he just laugh at me and touch me in an uncomfortable manner bt stil playful. One day he made a joke with his friends about me kissin 1 of them. Im just confused, please tell me what to do. Do you think he s inlove with me?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (9 September 2011):
 he needs to stop what he is doing and you should definitely follow the advice below.
If he does not stop, then you need to tell someone.
I think that if you wanted to actually sleep with him and you were of age, so on so forth, I would say it is your c hoice.
However, you do not want to and he needs to know that, right now.
Make sure you tell him in a public area, but not so closed together, you know?
Be direct!
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (9 September 2011):
 It sounds as though he is attracted to you. I say this without directly observing his behaviour, mind you.
Whatever is going on in his head, what he is doing is making you feel uncomfortable, and you can address that. There are some tactics you can use which will not acknowledge your suspicions (just in case we’re wrong), or bruise any egos.
1)Create distance. You see him coming and suddenly you are engrossed in a good book.
2)Don’t be alone with him and his friends. When he is near, try to be with your friends or family – especially a brother who is likely to frown on his behaviour.
3)Do not engage in playfulness back. If he says, “I love you,” say, “You are family – of course we love each other.”
4)Play stupid and don’t react the way he wants you to. He is trying to get a reaction from you – but YOU control how you react.
You get the idea and, knowing the situation better than I do, I am sure you can build on these.
Good luck! :-)
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (9 September 2011):
It sounds as though he is attracted to you. I say this without directly observing his behaviour, mind you.
Whatever is going on in his head, what he is doing is making you feel uncomfortable, and you can address that. There are some tactics you can use which will not acknowledge your suspicions (just in case we’re wrong), or bruise any egos.
1)Create distance. You see him coming and suddenly you are engrossed in a good book.
2)Don’t be alone with him and his friends. When he is near, try to be with your friends or family – especially a brother who is likely to frown on his behaviour.
3)Do not engage in playfulness back. If he says, “I love you,” say, “You are family – of course we love each other.”
4)Play stupid and don’t react the way he wants you to. He is trying to get a reaction from you – but YOU control how you react.
You get the idea and, knowing the situation better than I do, I am sure you can build on these.
Good luck! :-)
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