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My controlling and agrressive behaviour caused my boyfriend to dump me. How can I get him back?

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Question - (24 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i have been on and off for a year and a bit, he's family hate me, as a posted something nasty about him on face book to everyone. Ok pretty much, i'm really controlling, i get angry if i find out he is calling other girls, or if he promises to do something with me and then doesn't and I'm constantly telling him what to do, recently we broke up... but he seemed unsure when he was dumping me, saying one minute he just doesn't want a gf right now, and that i don't make him happy, then saying he loved me but just needs some time and started crying.. and then he called me a week later to say he wants to be with me just not right now, but said stuff like.. i dont want anyone else but you, you're so kind and caring and always there for me when i need you, and you're not controlling you just like things done a certain way and that he doesn't care what his family says he wants to be with me... but now he wont go on facebook, wont go on msn, and wont turn his phone on.... How do i get him to come back, cause i miss him and how do i no if he really meant what he said

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (24 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou know where your fault lies and you need to tone them down or change them.

Give him a break and when things are calm and normal again , speak to him or ask him out.

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