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writes:I feel very frustrated cos I cant seem to feel accepted by my boyfriend's mates. He has one group of mates and goes drinking with them most weekends. I go along lots but usually they are too drunk by the time I get there and barely acknowledge me. I spoke to my boyfriend about this and we thought it might work to do double dates, maybe dinner or drinks or concert together but they find an escuse to say no each time. I notice the other girlfriends bar one all are treated the same way but don't seem to mind. Why does this upset me so much? It's really important to me to know my boyfriend's mates and feel accepted by them, by which I mean even have some manners and talk to me - otherwise he might as well have none!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (19 June 2009):
 i guess this upsets you this much because you do actually want to hang around with your boyfriend with his mates too.
i mean it'd be nice to do that and they accept you.
they're just probably being selfish and immature and won't give you the time of day because they are pathetic.
try not to let it get to you. it's hard i know because that's part of being a couple hanging out with eachothers friends and doing stuff together.
maybe ask the friends what there problem is towards you as you've not done anything wrong?
Hope this helps hun x x x x good luck
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