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My boyfriend wants to see my 'area'!

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Question - (11 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm young, (not going to state my age) but I will tell you, i'm still in high school. My boyfriend, recently told me he wants to see my area. I dont really want to let him, because i think my clitoris is to large, and also my vagina lips are a little longer, i dont know what to do, PLEASE HELP!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (12 March 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou're underage, don't show you're boyfriend your downstairs until you're of the legal age of consent which varies from 16-18 per state in the US. Tell him you won't be showing him your private area because you are too young and not ready for it. If your boyfriend truly cares for you then he will respect your decision.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011):

dont do it , your too young and also its up to you and if you feel uncomftable then its not gunna be enjoyable for you RED LIPZ XX

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (11 March 2011):

chigirl agony auntTell him you don't want to show him. It is your body, you decide what you want to do with it and what you show whom. He has no right to ask for anything, even if he's your boyfriend. Just tell him no.

It'd be a bad idea anyway, just so you know. Getting naked with him will lead to sex. It can also be humiliating. Certainly never take nude pictures. Boys that age are immature, and he might tell others, or brag, about getting to see you naked. He could also tell people what you look like. If you send pictures you run a huge risk of those pictures getting passed around. So never take any pictures ever.

The fact alone that you do not want to let him see you means you are not ready for it. You probably look very normal and beautiful down there, but your mind is telling you you're not, as a means to find an excuse to not get naked with him. It's your subconsciousness telling you that you are not ready to go that far. Once you are ready to be that intimate with someone you will not be afraid of how you look, or what they will think. Once you are ready things will come more natural, and feel good, not nerve-wrecking.

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