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sexuallystupid
writes:i'm 16 and my boyfriend is turning 18 in less than a month. we've been having sex for about a year, and i'm always on the bottom. he's getting mad that i'm scared to go on top, but i don't know what to do! can someone explain to me what a girl is supposed to do when she's on top? thank you so much to whoever answers my question! Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Tell him you'll do it but as you are uncertain what to do, he should take the lead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): i was in this situation before i was really nervous that i would look dumb or he would give me that are you doing look. so i told him how i felt and he said that he would help me so he guided my hips so that it felt good for him and then when i felt comfortable i took over and he stopped moving me. i laughed for the first few minuets and whined that i couldn't do it but you'll get it don't worry ask him if he likes it or how it feels occasionally for reassurance...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Ok, you get on top, put his penis inside you and straddle. In the beginning, it'd be a bit tricky to get the hold of it, but you'll quickly get how it is.
You have to move your hips, there are several kinds of movements, but it really isn't hard. Try to be gentle, as his penis will probably slip out of your vagina in the beginning. He could also move his hips, so you can get some sort of rhythm.
Well, I'm not sure how else to explain, other that you'll quickly learn, don't be nervous and have fun in the process, I , at least, find it so much more enjoyable than being under him.
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reader, Hotstuff_405 +, writes (21 May 2008):
watch some porn..thatll give you an idea of what to do. I cant really describe it though, i mean you just get on top and ride! no but really if you two are comfortable together, then when that moment comes he will be willing to guide you through(: really dont panic its not that serious.
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reader, diva girl +, writes (21 May 2008):
i can't help you with that! i have never been on top, i have always been on bottom!! why don't you ask a very close friend who has been on bottom before!! good luck!!
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reader, Ryuk22  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 Hi there. my girlfriend loves me to go ontop, but I love her to go ontop. ^_^ so we swap, often. But to answer your question, i found two sex positions for you, which is of girls ontop...
Cow-Girl position & Reverse Cow-Girl position.
But basically, to explain to you what YOU should do ontop, i found this link instead, (WITH CARTOON MOVIE! :D!) showing how to do the Cow-Girl sex position.
Good luck
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