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When I asked if she'd mind if I kissed her, she said that there was no harm in experimenting! What do you make of this?

Q.   I'm really good friends with this girl. We talk alot. Everyday. One day I asked if she wud ever go out with me, and she said no she doesnt like me more than a friend. Than I get messages from her like couples how much I mean to her n she luvs me ...

A.   10 June 2008: she may potentially be into you. especially if she kisses you..i have guys friends who i love a lot and we are really close like you all..but i wouldnt dare kiss them unless i was into them..so thats a good sign for you(:... (read in full...)

His actions don't agree with his words... is he playing me? can he really be in love with me?

Q.   I am 18 years , my boyfriend is 25 years old. we have been together for about 6 months. This is the longest relationship i have been in. in the first month and a half that we had been together i lost my virginity to him and then three months into ...

A.   10 June 2008: you totally should leave him before you get in to deep and when he cheats again itll only hurt more..i was in the same situation you were in and i believed the guy that cheated with his ex itll only get worse. Do not believe him just leave him ... (read in full...)

What's with his disappearing act?!?!?!

Q.   So...long story short, I was dating this guy (Y) since end of Jan. We had been friends first for a couple years, but we met through my ex (they are friends). My ex started dating a girl that I thought was a friend of mine (note: I don't care they ...

A.   6 June 2008: I think he didnt answer because it wasnt sincere in the first place...he was acting hot with you then cold..then just disapeared. he obviously just wrote you becuase he needed something..he didnt get what he wanted so he started acting all cold ... (read in full...)

Will he ever come back? If he does can I forgive him?

Q.   im nearly 20 as is my now ex boyfriend of 2 years. as far as i was aware we were very happy together, i loved him so much and he was everything to me, and i thought he felt the same. he was still saying he loved me and everything else when he broke ...

A.   21 May 2008: no, you move on dont wait for him because you may miss out on another person, I know how it feels when you lose someone dear to you, but the best thing to do is to just live well and accomplish things in your life, because life doesnt stop when your ... (read in full...)

Will he give me another chance or not? What do you think?

Q.   Hi, it's me again. I'm a girl who's been posting about how I lied to my ex about my past, repeatedly, and how he got fed up and dumped me. I'm in a very confusing place now... he's contacted me throughout these days. We broke up on Thursday. Wel...

A.   21 May 2008: nope, I think that its going to turn out the same way. This guy seriously is confused, It seems as if he loves you but most guys dont want a girl with a lot of miles on them if you know what i mean. he probably loves you intellectually and thinks ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to go on top but I don't know what to do!

Q.   i'm 16 and my boyfriend is turning 18 in less than a month. we've been having sex for about a year, and i'm always on the bottom. he's getting mad that i'm scared to go on top, but i don't know what to do! can someone explain to me what a girl is ...

A.   21 May 2008: watch some porn..thatll give you an idea of what to do. I cant really describe it though, i mean you just get on top and ride! no but really if you two are comfortable together, then when that moment comes he will be willing to guide you through(: ... (read in full...)

Why cant I trust the women I love? Does every man go through this?

Q.   I have a problem , I cant seem to get this feeling of doubt out of my head with the women I love. I feel one day that she will never part with me, and the next just by a change of tone in her voice sends me thinking I have to look for some one new? ...

A.   14 May 2008: I think you are insecure. I dont think that everyman goes through that. you just need to be a bit more sure of yourself and what you have to offer. If this woman loves you to then you all shouldnt have trust issues. ... (read in full...)

He never answers his phone and told me to leave him alone! Still, should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

Q.   ok ive been with this guy for at least 6 months. but before i started talkin 2 him he had an ex of three years that he left becuse she was unfaithful. and he said that he would never get back with her. everything was going good with us. he would ...

A.   20 March 2008: thanx you for the advice becuase it has really been hard. I havent even wanted to give any other guys a chance because i know that if im with them i would be wishin that it was him..that weekend he didnt answer my calls was very hard. and i dont ... (read in full...)

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