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writes:My boyfriend told me he wanted a break so he can concentrate on working and moving out of his house so he can start college. I understand exactly where he is coming from too. He said he still loves me but now he never really tells me anymore. Im sorta scared that he is going to find somebody better than me or just change his feelings about me. I know I shouldt think this way and that I should just take one day at a time but I can't help but think of him every second of the day. I don't want to go out with anybody else either. He's the first guy that I have ever truly loved and i dont want things to change. Can anyone help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2008): lol thats funny to me bc i told my boyfriend that same thing today.but i just used it as an excuse bc i didnt want him anymore.maybe he's tellin tha truth tho but i wasnt
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (15 August 2008):
All you can do is give him his space. If you try to push him for an answer or make him be with you, he'll really distance himself. Like I always say, get involved with things you like to do or try new things. You don't have to go out and find a new boyfriend, you're probably not ready. Just stick with your friends and get involved in other things. Your happiness shouldn't be based on him. Although you can't help but be sad and you'll still think about him, you'll feel better that you're not spending every second thinking about him or hoping to hear from him. Just live your life. He obviously needs to focus on himself right now, so you should do the same.
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