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writes:My boyfriend spends more time with his friends than me! I'm not saying that we should see each other everyday. Perhaps just once a week. He has made a lot of plans with them but whenever I bring up sth to do, he either says he is busy or already has appointments with his friends. I don't even know if he wants to spend time together anymore Reply to this Question
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reader, babalou  +, writes (11 November 2014):
 I agree with Aunty BimBim. If he is not willing to prioritize you, I think you now know just how important spending time with you is to him. One day a week is not a lot at all. He is more interested in putting time and effort into his friendships that he is in maintaining your relationship.
I suggest expressing that you don't like that he rarely spends time with you and is always too busy to spend time with you, and then see where your conversation goes from there. If he is not willing to hang out with you or go on dates more often, you should probably take it as a loss and move on. You will find someone that is willing to invest in your relationship as much as you do.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (11 November 2014):
 It sounds like your relationship with your boyfriend has run its course .... I don't think once a week would be too much to ask.
You are not his priority, what you do next is your choice, to be honest I doubt he will notice if you just stop contacting him to suggest stuff to do ......... you need to decide if he is worth your putting in the effort of actually telling him he is dumped or just let him carry on as before until one day he realises you aren't interested anymore, which might take a month or two.
Let this one go, he is not worth your effort.
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