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*londie2007
writes:My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (12 November 2008):
 You just have to walk away from this. ring him an tell him its over an get on with yer life if he refuses to take it thats his own problem buh you know you've ended it with him! jus tell him its not workin and to move on! it should be tha best for yas both =)
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reader, blondie2007 +, writes (9 November 2008):
blondie2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Every week my boyfriend at least doesn't answer his phone to me, and then makes up some silly excuse, like his phone was getting fixed or that he did answer the phone and he didnt blank me. When i know for a fact that i wasnt on the phone to him the days he said. He seems to lie about the smallest things and it gets anoying. When im on the phone to him he will either be really nice or get really angry, he also says he will hang the phone up if i wont do something he tells me to. He seems really aggressive these days what could this be about? I have tried ending it but, the next day i will get a txt or a phone call like nothing wrong and like there was no txt. ??
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reader, blondie2007 +, writes (21 May 2008):
blondie2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think you could be right, just its my first real relation ship if you understand what i mean and it really is hard to forget the memories. Hes working away i never hear from him he has his phone off alot, then he lies and says he didnt. I think to be honest in time i will see the light and meet some one new, am just waiting. I cant see my self being tied down with him for much longer, your help has been great thanks. Love him, but things are never going to be the same i think everyone experiances there first teenage love, im sure i will manage. I have my future to look forwuds to anyways.
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (29 April 2008):
well chic it it helps ino how ya feel about loving someone so much that u take them back everytime! happened to me when i was lyk 15/16! but now me and that guy r really close mates and he helps me with any problems i have! it did take a while to get over things bout in time things do honestly get easier! ya have got yer whole life ahead of you, dont let 1 person be the 1 to tell you what yer life has to be like! sounds as if yer life could be easier without this guy, am i right hun?
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reader, blondie2007 +, writes (29 April 2008):
blondie2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help people, god knows what im going to do, hes down next weekend, hes been working away to make space for us to make things easyier, i always take him back some times wonder why i even bother. But love makes you do all kinds of crazy things. Were going to talk when hes back about everything and hopefull sort this mess all out. It makes it harder now because i have to sneek around for him as the family wont talk to me again if they find out. Feel so alone, isnt really good i have exams soon as well. My lifes so messed up at the minute i live with my aunty and dad. We dont even tall and i have been really sad, they never want know,no one listens not even my mam.
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reader, Nikkii Babyee +, writes (29 April 2008):
i say get rid of him hun! its 1 thing cheating with someone else but yer best friend? thats just uncalled for! yer 16 and have yer whole life ahead of you theres going to be so many more guys out there for you, dont get stuck on this 1! and as 4 yer best friend she seriously needs to get her priorities right!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): you have said one thing right you are 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you. The thing is he is much older and should have known better but I have been in the same situation soo with that being said. My advise is IF it is serious then you will know that love takes time. He will make mistakes and so will you and have. If it is right for BOTH of you, you guys will sit down and set some guidelines or boundries. Argue fight scream and holler do what ever it takes (if you feel this is the one) to get this fight done. Then the discussion is trust which is not something that just happens after something like this occurs. It takes patience and being there and reminding that person of why your there and vise versa. BUT the absoult most important thing is COMMUNICATION not just talking but listening to what they and you are actually saying.
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reader, blondie2007 +, writes (27 April 2008):
blondie2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know that to wrongs dont make a right, but the thing is i cant imagin my self with anyone else. Im 16 hes 27 and the thing is he treats me like a princess and im scared to let it go. I cheated on him to make things better and to be honest i do. I wouldnt believe it she was closer than a sister mabeys i told her to much. I have my whole life ahead of me. We have been together nearly a year and its been the best year of my life.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (27 April 2008):
 I don't think this guy is for you since he cheated on you with a so called best friend. Ok I know you cheated back and two wrongs do not make a right, but your friend sleeping with your boyfriend is no excuse and you are better off without them both.
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