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female
age
26-29,
*ivemenovacaine
writes:Hello, I really need some help. Ive been wif my bf for about 8 months now and we were doing great. We really do love each other more than anything and I have no doubts but the other day his x gf told him she wants him back n bla bla bla. I just broke down knowing he has another girl that text him when im not around and I know she will! I told my bf how upset I was. I told him I refuse to tell him what to do and he can text her and whatever. He replys with "i dont care about her,u are the only girl I will ever want. I will delete her number from my phone, delete her from my fb, Im not friends with her anymore. The only one I want it you!!" You would think I would feel better but im still really botherd by this situation. Its done and over with (i hope) but I still have bad anxiety about it. Can someone plz help me get over this? I need to stop worrying and trust my bf. He has mever givin me a reason to doubt him. Im just very patinoid and it is ruining my whole state of mind. Does anyone have any good advice on how to stop worrying about things like this?
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reader, Givemenovacaine +, writes (15 January 2011):
Givemenovacaine is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank u so much :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 I understand why it would upset you that his ex girlfriend wants him back off course you are going to be a little bit paranoid and scared. But it sounds to me like it is you he wants to be with you and he has been with you for 8 months this shows that he must really want to be with you.
I know this probably shook things up for you his ex texting him but just remember you are the one that has him not her and you should feel good about the fact that others are interested in him but that they cant have him because he only has eyes for you. This should make you feel good.
I think time is the only thing here that will make you feel better. The paranoia will hopefully soon pass when you realise that he is not going back with his ex. Goodluck.
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