My boyfriend's memory problems... are they a sign that he's not interested in me or something medical? For example, he completely forgot that I had been in hospital!!!
Q. I am feeling upset and that my boyfriend doesn't care about me because he has forgotten some things which have been important to me. I love him so much but I feel like I am getting little in return at times. I am starting to worry that he has a ...
A. 17 July 2008: I am the forgetful guy, it's types of things which are hard to remember.
Names, dates, personal details, not a chance :-D In one ear, out the other, almost regardless of how much I try and memorize.
Numbers, the clothing people wear, faces, sha... (read in full...)
How do I talk to a boyfriend that thinks I'm a compulsive liar?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my BF for a little over a year. He doesn't trust me and I spend all my time with him. Now I feel like everything I say is wrong so I don't even speak. he gets so mad at me and tells me I'm a compulsive liar and a ...
A. 17 July 2008: More likely than not (hard truth: beware) once you have lost his trust, it's very hard to earn back...
I'm not saying you have lied too much, or cheated, nor am I saying he just thinks this for no reason.
If the reason is you, it will be very ... (read in full...)
I uploaded sexy videos of my girlfriend's to the Internet, where do I stand legally now?
Q. my girlfriend made some sexy vids for me and sent them 2 my email while i was working away , months later we split after i found out she was cheating and in the heat of the moment uploaded them to internet . she found out and has said she is going ...
A. 16 July 2008: How would you like it if nude videos of you were posted online?
Take your punishment like a man.
You can and likly will be arrested. Dont be a jerk and deny accountability for the upload- It's not fair and sets bad precedence.
Tell the jud... (read in full...)
Okay guys, last day on earth! Who would you cheat on your wife with?
Q. Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, Jessica Alba , Pamela Anderson, Beyonce, Christina Aguilera, Jennifer Lopez, Madonna (shes still a virgin). Who do you prefer?...
A. 16 July 2008: I dont think these questions are worthwhile, and distract from the true point of this forum.... (read in full...)
Can you catch genital warts if he wears a condom?
Q. Hello, just a quick one. Can you catch gentil warts from someone if they wear a condom? I am female and he is male. Its just that i have heard he has it but doesn't know... so obv. i want to be careful. t...
A. 16 July 2008: Its not just "if the wart touches you", one can carry the virus in their skin, dormant, supressed, and it can still pass infection.
I'm afraid to say it's never safe to have sex with somebody who has had HPV less than a year ago (for females,... (read in full...)
When we hold hands, our hands get sweaty, any way to stop it?
Q. Hi everyone. Now this might seem like an odd question, but id be grateful for any replies. When me and my gf hold hands,it gets sweaty real quick.Is this normal? and is there anyway to stop it? Thanks...
A. 15 July 2008: Loop your index finger around hers, backs of the hands touching, kinda... Worked for me!... (read in full...)
What can I do about the degrading comments I get about my boobs?
Q. Im 15 and have 34D boobs. I do like them (i consider them my best physical feature) but my problem is that i feel sometimes really degraded by the comments i get from boys about them. i dont wear low-cut tops to attract attention to them or anything ...
A. 13 July 2008: If they are actually using those words, that's sexual harassement... Take it up with your headmaster or principal.... (read in full...)
How to deal with girls with the 'roving eye' sydrome?
Q. Well, this afternoon me and my friend were discussing about the behavior of girls and young women when it comes to dating and relationships. Both of us agreed on and were indignant towards women with the following attitude and behavior: 1). They ...
A. 5 July 2008: I agree, and the tips to deal with them are useful, you know what to look for and then can identify and can then back away.
But I think asking for commitment (#1) isnt a problem, as long as it's the lone member on the list.
I just got through... (read in full...)
Is sex in a commitment better than one night stands?
Q. hi i want to no if being in a committed relationship make sex more pleasurable to women than casual sex...
A. 26 June 2008: Sometimes, it seems like you just want to f*** a hot guy/girl, but in reality, it's always shallow and empty.
Committed sex is more fun!!!... (read in full...)
Do you think this new guy I have been seeing may have a fetish?
Q. Okay I am just curious, I know there are people out there who have bizarre fetishes and such. I am wondering if this new guy I have been seeing may have one. I am curious here.....he recently set his myspace status to "I love coloring ;)" It soun...
A. 24 June 2008: Sounds to me like a childish thing...
I personally, enjoy Legos ;-) I'm 23, but I get paid to play with them when I do!!... (read in full...)
Who here is against recreational sex? Any antisexuals?
Q. I know several asexuals but only a handful of antisexuals. It's disheartening that I often feel I am alone on this. While asexuality is gaining acceptance, people ridicule those who are against sex. The only sex I am not against is proc...
A. 24 June 2008: Yes, but sex is also alot of fun, when done with plenty of regard for proper procedure and safty!
However, I fully respect a-sexuals, and to an extent, anti-sexuals.
There are many, many reasons (STDs and pregnancy) not to have sex.
Personal... (read in full...)
Is erectile disfunction a growing problem?
Q. Until fairly recently, you did not hear as much about men with erectile dysfunction. Can it be that it was just kept quiet? Today it is a common complaint. You often did hear men complaining that they did not have satisfactory sexual relationships, ...
A. 22 June 2008: Technically, ED is a "growing problem" by definition :-D
But seriously, it's just an excuse. Everybody has always had problems, this is just a fad to call it ED and blame porn and the intarwebs.... (read in full...)
Please help me with my body-image issues!!
Q. Him I'm 19 y/o. I have a stupid problem, and feel so down about it :( The problem is that I'm very sensitive to the images in the media. So I feel very down about my body. I'm average I guess. I'm not really thin, but I'm not overweight. It...
A. 8 June 2008: To tell you the truth- Most guys will SAY they want a girl as "hot" as in porn or the movies or mass media; in reality, guys are more turned on by the interaction and chemistry you have (Assuming they arent shallow!), as long as you're able-bodied ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find that special girl, who's never had sex with anyone before me??
Q. Why does it seem like the whole world is having sex, when I've lived for 19 years and am still a virgin? My friends that I've known for many years are all in these serious relationships with girls that they liked for so long, and are now constantly ...
A. 6 June 2008: Nice girls can have fun just like guys can nowadays- The "no sex before marriage" was meant to tell you that STDs and unwed parents are the result of sexual promescuity- Dont worry if a girl has had her share of safe fun before she fell in love with ... (read in full...)
Can exes be best friends? I'm a bit bothered by this...
Q. Hey all, quick question for anyone listening, Do you think that its ok for ex's to be best friends? my new gf is bestfriends with her ex and it just makes me uneasy, she assures me that its all over between then but i still cant help but be bothered ...
A. 28 May 2008: Oh man, I feel this one.
If he acts in any way possesive, touchy-feely, or does anything thats anything but platonic, you have a cause for concern. Address it with both of them, individually, as you see fit. Make sure it is your place; dont com... (read in full...)
Should I pay for this holiday if I don't end up going?
Q. I am considering splitting up with my boyfriend. I don’t want to go into why, but there is a slight problem if we can’t sort out our problems and do split up - we are due to go on holiday in 6 weeks and I don’t know what to do. He paid for the ...
A. 28 May 2008: Well do you want to really stick him for the trip as well as breaking it off with him?
If you decide not to go, be nice and pay the guy.... (read in full...)
Are oral sex and anal sex classed as "real" sex?
Q. is oral sex and anal sex classed as sex? some of my friends think that a blowjob or anal is no different than kissing someone,but i dissagree i think that they are different types of sex but when i tell my friends they laugh at me and call me an ...
A. 26 May 2008: Best way to think of it:
If there is a possible of a communicable disease (or pregnancy), consider it sex. If you consider it sex, you should do it safe. That way, it's always done right.... (read in full...)
Personal question on labia
Q. Dear, cupid I feel really ashamed asking this! My labia is too small and my urethra sticks out. I found that a beautiful vaginal or {porno graphical} considered{ healthy } is when the outer vulva covers the inner section ofthe bladder. Please ...
A. 18 May 2008: I hope you dont mind, but I'm a man and I found this article for you:
http://www.aboutkidshealth.ca/HealthAZ/Urethral-Prolapse.aspx?articleID=9806&categoryID=... (read in full...)
My mum get's angry when I stutter!
Q. When I talk to my mom she rolls her eyes, and she looks angry. I could tell sometimes she doesn't want me to talk to her. Sometimes when I talk I stutter or cannot get the words out of my mouth. Maybe my mom doesn't like the way I talk.I can't help ...
A. 18 May 2008: My mom was the same way- I have a condition called a tremor, which makes my hands shake. Often, she would brign it up, telling me to 'relax', 'calm down', remind me of my shaking, knowing full well it's neiter attributed to my current level of ... (read in full...)
My bf and his brother donated their sperm so their lesbian friends could have a baby. Can this happen without sex?
Q. My bf has 2 lesbian friends that are friend of the family well they wanted to have a baby so my bf and his brother donated there sperm to her but they put it in a cup and they waited a min or so and then she went and poured it into her can she still ...
A. 15 May 2008: Generally, artificial insemination can be done surgically, or with even things like a turkey baster :-P Needs to be deposited, not poured...
But depending on how "hot" those friends are, I would vote it cannot be done a-physically.... (read in full...)
I'm no stunner but I'm not the elephant man either - So how can I attract some female attention?
Q. How can I attract some female attention? I'm kind of shy and not good at flirting but I'm a nice guy and I'm not hideous but i'm 28 years old and I've only had sex twice, and that was 2 or 3 years ago. I was going out with a girl for two year...
A. 9 May 2008: Try some dating sites, or places where people like you might hang out.
Smart nerdy only mostly-attractive guys like myself (Thins, pastey, messy hair) are wanted expressly by few, but indirectly by many. Make use of your good features, and sell... (read in full...)
Boys and Men...what do you think about teenage lesbians?
Q. Older men..do you think 'Oh she's just a teenager, it's just a phase..she doesn't really know what she wants'? We had to talk about it in class today and it seemed that most boys thought it 'hot'. I know some guys think that, but what do the othe...
A. 1 May 2008: I'd say they are underage. But assuming it's legal:
First, hot. Two girls!! And likely touching each other!
Second, not so much... I'll soon realize I'm excluded.
Third, Disdain. Stereotypical, they are likely rather macho.... (read in full...)
Why don't guys seem phased at all about breaking up?
Q. why do guys when they break up with someone who they supposedly loved act like they arent even bothered. My bf broke up with me after 4 months together and i was truly hurt, we are both 14. Like he acted like nothing bothered him but yet I heard ...
A. 22 April 2008: If it makes you feel any better, I have been extremely distraught by all my breakups. Who cares what he thinks? You broke up with im, didnt you? Theres a reason it wasnt working out. Maybe he's a careless jerk.
Guys have been trained since da... (read in full...)
One for the guys..What's your favourite sexual position?
Q. For the guys here...I am just curious what is your favorite sex position? I think that a lot of guys like the woman on top but I'd like to hear guy's opinions. Thanks!...
A. 13 April 2008: Mine would have to be the "Lazy Dog", might have another term for it: Think doggie style, but the female lies flat on her stomach, with the man draped over her, arched upwards from his hands which are planted to the sides of her shoulders.
Very ... (read in full...)
Why do I still get sweat marks, even though I use deoderant?
Q. I wear loads of deodrant and sometimes don't even feel that hot, but I seem to always get sweat marks!! I hate it, no one else gets it! What can I do? x...
A. 5 April 2008: I agree with previous posters, but want to add:
Deoderant is just that, for deoderizing.
You want antipersperant.
Wear looser clothes, keep cooler. Shorts are always in season for the permanently warm!... (read in full...)
What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?
Q. If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? ...
A. 5 April 2008: Currently, it's a part of your body. Nobody's decision but your own.
If it comes between you and your partner, so be it. Tell your partner you simply cannot handle a child; if your partner is truely yours, they will understand.
... (read in full...)
Be honest please, I'm trippin', can she be pregnant?????
Q. Okay, say I came on my hands the night before and washed them, went to bed then at around 4 o'clock the next day started playing with a girl out side her pants! So without comtact can she get pregnant? Note that there was a small hole around the ...
A. 31 March 2008: Practically 100% no.
1. Any residual man-jelly would have long expired outside the body for so long.
2. Female are loaded with spermacide, and all input needs to be synchronized for potential output :-D... (read in full...)
I have genital warts! Does this mean my boyfriend has been unfaithful?!!
Q. Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend for six months and I have genital warts on my vagina does that mean he has been unfaithful or do you think I may have caught it from the past boyfriends? Because I read that it can lay dormant in your body ...
A. 26 March 2008: Best forum for peers with HPV (papilloma virus- genetal warts):
http://yoshi2me.com/phpbb/viewforum.php?f=14... (read in full...)
I would like a man's opinion about whether or not you would dump someone because of braces? Do you think I should have backed down and said I wouldn't get them?
Q. I'm 20 years old and in university right now... I had been seeing this guy for 2.5 years and it was very serious, talking about the possibility of engagement at some point in the next 3-4 years... very serious. I loved him with all my heart and we ...
A. 10 March 2008: Braces are sexy- Guys always like dating younger women :-D (with expection).
He sounds very, very shallow. Skip him, get the braces, and attract a new guy with them, or worse comes to worse, with a brand new perfect smile!... (read in full...)
What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...
Q. Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?...
A. 10 March 2008: From my 23y/o perspective, I mostly agree with DoubleM, clean and short pubic area, not bushy... Shaved is nice but not always fun...
Go with red nails... Red is just one of those colors :-D
Scents- Something light. I think most guys dont l... (read in full...)
Is 'camel toe' looked down on?
Q. Is having 'camel toe' looked down on, or worse than being completely tight? Is it an insult?...
A. 6 March 2008: Its worse that showing too much cleavage, or displaying thong out the back of one's pants. Wear clothes that fit!... (read in full...)
Is this a long time to have gone without having sex? I feel... distinct.
Q. I'm uncertain about something. I've gone without sex for 10 months and I'm starting to feel a LOT of withdrawal. Feels like I'm the only person on the planet that isn't having it. It got me thinking... is 10 months a long time to go without...
A. 6 March 2008: I'm at about the same mark, I rely on ___-jobs and myself mostly :-P I broke up with my last girlfriend last spring, and my current girlfriend is under lock and key :-P... (read in full...)
Should I end it with the girl I'm dating now for her friend?
Q. I am having a hard time with a girl i like. We were good friends before, and ever since i asked her out, she and i have barely been able to talk to one another. On top of this, this girl i like's friend also likes me, and im starting to become ...
A. 4 March 2008: Not to disagree, but its proven... The grass is always greener on the other side :-D... (read in full...)
How should I react to my sister spitting in my face??
Q. What do you do when your sister spits in your face, during a heated argument? She's also done it to her 80 year old dad....
A. 4 March 2008: Show best form- Wipe it off your face, look her in the eye, and (grab your tazer and give her what for... Kidding!) tell her that it was absolutely disgusting, and walk away.
When calm, remind her it is subhuman behavior, and utterly disgrace... (read in full...)
My ex found out she is HIV positive. If I am infected, how do I tell my girlfriend?
Q. A few days ago, I got a series of rather disturbing test messages on my cell phone from a number I didn't recognize. After a little searching around, I found out that it was an ex-girlfriend whom I was on bad terms with. Long story short, the ...
A. 4 March 2008: Best of luck. You're in a tough position, and serious news like this is VERY irresponsabily spread via TXT when it really should be face to face or phone conversation, preferably with a doctor.
I wouldnt tell anybody untill you know for sure. In... (read in full...)
Why has sex just become so casual nowadays?
Q. Why has sex just become so casual nowadays. I mean before people did not even think about losing their virginity before marriage. What I don't understand is how people just do 'it' with people they hardly know properly. Sex before marriage does ...
A. 4 March 2008: I think today the media has made is as visible a problem as it was unrecorded in the past.
You never think your grandparents/parents had as much fun regarding sex, drugs and 'rock and roll' untill you hear it from them- I have.
Its just as b... (read in full...)
I wasn't invited to the party and I'm offended!
Q. Ever have that HORRIBLE feeling of not being invited to a party?? Well, happened to me this week. AS we speak, there's a sweet16 party going on and my friends are all there. Of course, everyone but me. Uhm, I'm really good friends with these gi...
A. 29 February 2008: If you're not friends with her, you should have had YOUR friends ask her if you could come.
Not your party, not your friend throwing it!
Also, relax a bit :D You can always throw a party, and ask your friends to invite Anna... Make great frien... (read in full...)
He's big, but he cums too quickly, how can we deal with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have only been together for alittle over a month and just recently started having sex. My boyfriend has quite a big penis. We have had sex about five times now and each time he ejaculates quite quickly which doesn't give me enough ...
A. 25 February 2008: Heres my strategy, without getting into too much detail:
1. Let the guy warm you up a bit
2. Work him over with a ___-job, IE oral, manual
3. During the man's "recovery time" have him perform some favor on you, perhaps oral.
4. Have sex!... (read in full...)
How does someone get to a size zero????
Q. heyx i was just wondering how u can get to size zero, and dont tell me that its bad for you, i already know. And looking so skinny isnt even attractive. I just want to know for my bestmate, she is really skinny now and she tells me that she is a ...
A. 24 February 2008: Didnt you also ask a question about how long you can go without eating?
If I were you, my next question would be to a perofessional, regarding psycological eating disorders.
Size zero is as disgusting as size 50: Both are rarely attainabl... (read in full...)
How can I get to see a dentist quickly?
Q. hi it been 10 years i since i went to dentist i want to know if it possilble that dentist can get me in again quick since i movve places, i lost contact of a dentist and dnt want to be put on a waiting list thx...
A. 23 February 2008: Why do you need to see one so urgently?
If you have an emergency / need of a quick dental appointment, call up one and tell them... They are inderstanding.... (read in full...)
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