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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:HiI don't know where to start with this but I've got a friend (who I consider to be my best friend) that I've known since we were 9. We're now both 21 and I'm God Mother to her son. But recently she started hanging out with another girl that's her cousin's girlfriend. I mean, okay, people are allowed to have more than one friend but she's changed so much since hanging around with her. Like, we both used to be tomboys growing up. This is probably why we got on so well because everyone else were girly-girls. But now she's a girly-girl. Also her son used to be her number one priority but now she's more into partying all because this other girl is.I don't know if I should say anything to her because I don't want to make things worse, I guess. But at the same time I want her to know how much she's changed and how I feel....And ideas about what I should do, if anything?Thanks.
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reader, kikicupid +, writes (11 May 2008):
 I say talk to her, even though i understand that its hard and off course she's allowed other friends, but if you feel she is not getting her priorities straight such as her son, then its worth talking to her about. Make it seem more like you are worried about and maybe that you miss her, rather than showing that you are jealous. Good luck! xxx
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