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writes:Three months ago my now ex boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. He said he wanted it to be civil, which it was in the beginning. I had moved to a different country to be with him and we had decided to live together, but he moved out and told me I could keep the apartment. However, while he was physically out, most of his stuff was still in the apartment. Anyway, to make a long story short, I came home one day to find that not only had he changed the locks to our apartment, but he also threw all my stuff outside so that I was basically homeless. (I stayed with friends until I found something). I really want someone to know what he has done to me, leaving me homeless with no family to stay with. Can I write to his parents or siblings? I wasn't close with with either and I know this is their son/brother, but I would want to know if my child/sibling did something like this.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 July 2012):
 I wouldn't. this was between you and your ex and his family is not really part of it.
you want to tell them in hopes that they will tell you what a jerk he is and how wrong he is but blood is thicker than water and they will probably take his side.
It's best to write it off and move forward with no contact towards him and his family.
I'm sorry you had such a lousy experience and hope you can move past it rather quickly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2012): You can write to his family, but I honestly don't think it will do you any good. It is none of their business what he does anyway, and honestly they are not going to believe you, and if they do believe you they won't care. What do you hope to achieve by telling them? The fact is nothing will change, and he is their family, you are just someone whom he was with for a time. I don't see any point in doing this, in fact you will be the one who gets a bad reputation of being the psycho ex. Let it go and take it as a lesson learned, don't give him the satisfaction of knowing that you still care about what he did, or what kind of person he is.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 Personally I doubt they will believe you, all he needs to do is say she blah blah blah and they will take his word for it.
Unless you are owed money or he has more of your possessions, put it down to another of life's lessons, and let it go.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (23 July 2012):
Personally I doubt they will believe you, all he needs to do is say she blah blah blah and they will take his word for it.
Unless you are owed money or he has more of your possessions, put it down to another of life's lessons, and let it go.
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reader, CollegeCutie  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 No. I understand ur frustration but it is not ur place what so ever to contact his family or friends. They are his family and will take his side and you will come off as the bad person in the situation and it could bring on trouble. He has his story and you have yours of what went down and when it comes down to it they will believe him over you. This guy is a huge douche bag to say the least but id leave it as is. Move on get your own place and leave everything to do with him behind cause hes not worth one more thought.
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