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writes:My boyfriend just doesn't seem interested sometimes, and it really hurts because I'm really into him, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't want me any more? I don't want to lose him, but what do O do :(?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 My experience is that guys don't like clingy girls. They like girls who are confident and independent. So if I were you I'd be very busy with my friends and school and after-school activities. Give him a chance to miss you, be a little unavailable sometimes, don't drop everything and come running everytime he calls.
Hopefully, this positive energy and popularity and all these interesting things you're doing will intrigue him, and he'll WANT to spend more time with you, rather than feeling that he HAS to. Something that is hard to get is often more 'valued' by a guy, than something that is always available. This means you.
So back up, back off, give him time to miss you, make him wonder what fun things you've been doing, and let him close that gap between you.
And don't let this mess with your schoolwork!!! (Sorry, I couldn't resist a mom-style nag.)
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay thanks oh and by the way, the relationship is good, just sometimes i dont feel he wants me anymore like i have said and we have been going out for 7 months on and off. soo yeah.
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reader, [email address blocked] +, writes (1 March 2009):
Maybe you should confront him about this. Tell him how you're feeling. Don't be all clingy and desperate but try to be calm and casual and just be like "hey.. As you probably know I'm really glad we're dating and I very much like you. I wanted to know if you're feeling the same" try being upfront and honest about it. It depends on how mature he is. If he's mature, then he'll act mature about this. If he's not he'll laugh it off and not give you a direct answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Maybe you watched that stupid movie, and you know the one I mean, and you got some ideas into your head.
Look, nobody on this board knows either you or your boyfriend, you haven't given any details about what your relationship is like, how long you've been together or any details about what exactly the problem is other than he "doesn't seem interested".
That is not enough information for anyone to say anything of any meaning. Why don't you try TALKING TO YOUR BOYFRIEND about this. Ask him, let him know how you feel. He will be able to give you more informations than we can after reading a 3 line question, you know?
Good luck
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