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writes:Moderator's Note: Two questions from the same person have been combined.One minute my boyfriend was acting loving, affectionate and being really kind towards me as he has been for ages, now suddenly he is now distant?My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. For months now he has been kind, sweet and affectionate just how a true boyfriend should be. We've been getting along just great. Two days ago we were having a lovely conversation through text (we're a long distance couple, it's hard as we're both very busy college students but we manage to make it work), he was on his way back from school and told me he'd be on his laptop soon. When he got back home he came online and it was like his attitude completely changed. He rarely spoke, didn't sound interested in anything I had to say and was rather arrogant about everything. It confused the hell out of me, I don't know what went wrong. I told him I couldn't be bothered to deal with this attitude and left, since then we haven't spoken. Usually every morning we speak to each other and send sweet messages, I sent him a "Hello" yesterday and all I got was a poorly written "hi" and nothing more, he didn't even bother say anything else afterwards, so his attitude is still the same.We're supposed to be meeting once again after school is done with for the summer as we've been too focused on exams to see each other these past couple of months.TL;DR-What should I do about this? It's getting to me more than I thought as it was completely unexpected.Thanks.
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (7 May 2010):
Yeah. This could really get on your nerves. Try this. Dont contact him for a while. I know it might be hard but distract yourself with a lot of things and try not to contact him. And wait till he does. Sometimes, people have their days and mood swings. It could be just one of those or he is actually trying to ignore you. Well, whatever it is..you should find out soon. If he doesnt contact you, you should know he is moving on. And the fact that you wont contact him will really bother him too and it will confuse him.I hope it helps. This always worked for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): Its ovious the long distance relationship has bored him,usually online dating isnt taken much seriously its just a by the way to kill boredome i believe your boyfriend is cheating on you,the best is to arrange you two should meet and talk it over at dinner and see your way forward in this.But dont force matters let the best happen and find what suit you.
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