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writes:Well my bf is kinda childish. I mean he pokes me when he wants me to pay attention to him, and he hangs on em somtimes. He follows me around even if it causes him trouble. Hes like an annoying parasite sometimes. When i try to say something he gets this depressed "i'm sowwy" child look on his face which frustrates me cause i cant even talk to him. He has to talk to me about all my secrets and how i feel ALL the time. And anything I say that is a bit negative he blame son himself and gets depressed-ish. He can act real obnoxious sometimes. I guess I am a picky gf but I have tried to put up with things. But after a while this just has me so frustrated i'm almost at the breaking point.
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reader, liddy  +, writes (6 November 2010):
hey i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months now ,he is the sweetst man ,but he is so anoying, he is constantly proding ,pokeing and all over me also when i tell him to get off her carrys on like i said nothing , i have told him that its anoying me , but i feel like if it carrys on i would have to end it ... Spliting up is the verry last thing i want to do because i would be loseing a fantastic man , his 18 and i just with he would act his age . :( anyone got some advice !?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI found out what happened, he just thought i liekd how he acted when he changed caus ei put up with it for so long, and thanks for ur responses
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reader, hollydolly4485 +, writes (3 June 2010):
Hi,
Well obviously you are two completly different people. I have been with my b/f aka un-official finace for almost 6 years. He never touches me, kisses me, pays attention to me. I'm must say I wish that he was ''annoying'' tome. Although, I have had very clingy guys in the past, and it isn't fun. You just have to realize if he is worth it or not. I have children with my man so I don't have an opption to leave him. However, you do. Maybe you guys are just too different. Try letting him no how your feeling, without hurting his feelings. Good luck to ya and keep it fresh with him.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Ahh...he's being clingy/needy. That *is* tough. The only thing you can do is tell him exactly how you feel. Ignore his depression and lay it out on the line. The thing about needy/clingy people is that they're really good at playing victim and getting you to soften your annoyance. Their tactics are often so subtle that they can actually get allies to see it from their point of view and make you feel like a mean toad. You *have* to ignore that pressure.
If he doesn't get the message, then he's not right for you.
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