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I can't go out with him as I can't do that to my parents.

Q.   I am a muslim girl and 15 years old. This might sound stupid, but please read the whole story. 2 years ago I met this boy. I never liked anypne before, and wasn't very intrested in having a boyfriend but he was different. I started liking h...

A.   23 November 2008: Okay.. I Understand religons are very different. If you pass him up you might regret that decision. Religions shouldn't control like that. And, it would be best if you talked to your parents about it. Prefferably your mother first because she may ... (read in full...)

His friends say he likes me but I am still unsure of whether they are all having a bit of laddish fun at my expense...

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 and I've had a huge crush on this guy who went to my school, only thing is he's 19. He left a year ago and went on a gap year and we started messaging again the past few months...he must have found out I liked him. His friends also mes...

A.   15 August 2008: Ok never ever trust friends of the guy.. they mess up everything. You definetley should talk to the guy and make sure if hes interested. Boys are very weird.. If this does work out the answer is No, the age difference isn't a problem. Many boys like ... (read in full...)

He's ALWAYS been a major flirt with all the girls.Should I cope or leave?

Q.   I need some help. Im 19 years old and I have started dating this guy who I went to school with. The thing is though hes ALWAYS been a major flirt with all the girls. Hes overly friendly, overly confident and overly flirty to most girls. But wh...

A.   15 August 2008: There are many many boys that act this way &+ At my school theres this boy whose exactly the same. Confident & Flirty. Being his girlfriend might not be easy and at times you may be really Jealous. Don't try to accuse him of anything it may just be ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to date my step sister? Our parents found out and they want to break either their relationship or ours.

Q.   My dad is about to get married and she has a daughter and we really like each other and have been keeping a secret relationship for 2 months. they just found out and they want either their relationship to end or ours. Either way i wont be living in ...

A.   22 July 2008: I think theres no problem with this.. she's only your stepsister &+ its not as serious as your brother or sister biologically. To me it doesn't seem as a form of incest &+ I don't find it wrong at all. if i was you i would keep on with your ... (read in full...)

Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?

Q.   When me and my boyfriend have oral sex..Does he like it when I moan? Or is it a complete turn off?...

A.   18 July 2008: Moaning is a total turn on hun. But a tip for you is to moan his name that will really get him in the mood and im telling you he will love it. Just don't make the mistake of saying another boys name.. yea. So i hope that works out for you.... (read in full...)

Help! My boyfriend's ex is flirting with him!

Q.   Please help me My boyfriend's ex is flirting with him and he is flirting back. He hasn't been very nice me but is all over her and they hang around together. PLEASE HELP ME I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!...

A.   18 July 2008: Ohkay I just had this problem when me and my ex were dating. It depends on there situation before you. If she was the one who brokeup with him its better for you to tell him exactly how you feel and tell him he needs to decide what he wants. He may ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend sometimes calls me fat, which makes me cry, and brings out my insecurities, I am driving him away, what can I do to build my self-esteem?

Q.   I am currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. I would do anything for him and I think he would do anything for me, problem is I think I could be pushing him away. We have been in a relationship for a year and a half and I can honestly say...

A.   17 July 2008: I think that you should break up with him. Don't get me wrong i know it won't be easy but its better for your relationship. If the love really is there he will realize how much he has hurt you and most likely attempt to reconnect with you. He will ... (read in full...)

We used a condom during sex, but my period is late, could I possibly be pregnant?

Q.   okay, three weeks ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of some time. we used a condom, and he pulled out before he ejaculated. i was supposed to start my period yesterday and.. i didn't. today: nothing either. i'm very worried. i'm 15,...

A.   10 July 2008: Take a pregnacy test 3 Thats the best way to reassure if you or if you don't.... (read in full...)

I need help with party etiquette

Q.   I'm only 13 and i've never pulled anyone b4 and i don't hve a boyfriend currently. How do u pull at a party? If a guy comes u 2 u from behind do u wait 2 turn around or turn immediately? I accidentally rejected a guy for waiting to long. ...

A.   10 July 2008: I'm thirteen too. Parties are really big deals. Appearance [&+] Personality are your two main things you absolutely need to have. Depending on what type of party (theme, ect.) go for a flirty, sexy (not very revealing though..) outfit. Makeup isn't ... (read in full...)

My bf keeps having mood swings!!

Q.   im seventeen. my boyfriend has been having mood swings toward me , and he takes his anger for his family out on me, not only do i feel distant from him but i feel he is not the same person i fell in love with a year ago. we haven't had sex in two ...

A.   9 July 2008: That was the wrong way to go. You should've confronted him first. You absolutely must tell him that you cheated and be 100% honest with him. He deserves to know the truth especially after a year of being together. About his mood swings if everythi... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has cheated before and isgiving me reasons to doubt him, what can I do?

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and hes aready told me that he loves me. he told me about an incident when he slept round his ex girlfriends and she tried to kiss him. and recently his ex contacted me and told me a different story, that ...

A.   9 July 2008: If i was you i would confront him about this. I would tell him what i heard and that i don't believe her but i thought i should ask you about it and i want you to be 100% honest with me and tell me if you actually did kiss her. I understa... (read in full...)

I love him, but should I, as a female, say I love you first?

Q.   i'm developing likeness for a guy "is right to tell him "i love you" as a female?...

A.   9 July 2008: I suggest you wait. I've date many guys and i've come to find that you should wait until the guys says I love you first. This proves to you that maybe he's not just telling you I love you because you said it and he wouldn't want you to loose ... (read in full...)

When would be the proper time to try, to have sex with her, she is very shy?

Q.   I love my girlfriend she is a pritty shy girl to be honest. her ex boy friend treated her badly but was more advancde then me , i dont no when i should make the move to have sex with her and how? i dont want to make a move then get rejected i would ...

A.   9 July 2008: Since she's shy you really need to worry about her. If you love her alot you should maybe suggest it but don't put any type of pressure on her to do it. She might not be ready and if thats the case you absolutely must be ok with that and wait until ... (read in full...)

I didn't know how good she was until she left. Now I want her back.

Q.   I have been going out with a girl for 2 years almost, we have both been very much in love with each other however i have never really showed her this, she has always though she loves me more than i love her to the point of her getting so worried she ...

A.   9 July 2008: Ohkay.. she may tell you hat she's trying to forget you but.. it wont work. If she really really loved you you're not gonna just fade away from her mind no matter how hard she tries and neither is her love for you. It's the way that girls brains ... (read in full...)

His past is making him too cautious

Q.   ok...ive been seeing this guy since march and we're still not 'officialy' together. Partically the reason is because he's been screwed over by his mum who left him alone on the other side of the country by himself..then he met this girl who was his ...

A.   9 July 2008: I think that what you should do is let him know exactly how you feel. Have a talk with him and tell him you're aware of his past and how he doesn't want to get hurt. Tell him that you are willing to wait until he's ready but that it hurts you not ... (read in full...)

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