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writes:I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only...He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help him last longer? I don’t want him to feel bad about it anymore.. I’ve reassured him and everything but i need other options to help him..Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2017): I think the classic thing for the guy to do is think about baseball or something :)
Actually what a lot of couples do is switch positions when the guy gets too close.
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reader, Sue beesue +, writes (23 November 2017):
I can relate so hear is what ive learned. 1/no matter what you say to him he will feel the way he wants to about it. We are trying cock rings. You can try an herb called horny goat. Encourage him to masturbate without you but he needs to learn self-control so just before he comes he needs to stop. Pause for about 1 min then do it again. Now it sounds like you two are fairly young my advice suggest he go see his doctor cause there may be something wrong. Good luck ive been at it for years now and he still want go to doctor. Its a guy thing is don't get pushy
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2017): 3-5 minutes!! Thats nothing to be ashamed of...I only last 30 seconds...Its called the Irish curse...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2017): It absolutely is okay - remind him that porn isn't reality and that most guys who boast about their sex lives are exaggerating.
Then suggest a doctor may be able to check it's not health related. Once he's been to a doctor and found nothing abnormal, try lubes and condoms that minimise sensation, to prolong his.... well, you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe always focuses on me first. He’s just embarrassed about it and wants to be able to last longer than 3-5 mins.. which i told him was Okay..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2017): *should just focus on you
Use toys, use lubes, use tongues, hands, condoms that reduce sensitivity, masturbate pre-sex, him work on you and then you work on him when you've orgasmed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2017): To questions like this, my main answer is that a penis isn't needed for great sex. Once he's done, he shouldn't just focus on you or focus on you first and then sort him out.
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