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anonymous
writes:I am trying new sexual things w/my boyfriend because he brought it to my attention. But when I try to send him a sexy text message he just goes to bed or seems uninterested. why???
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 March 2010):
He probably doesn't know what to say to you. For all the talk you hear about me being unstoppable sex machines, we're actually very shy about it if we don't know what we're doing. You could gently ask him if he's okay with the texts you send him and see what he says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): Guy's don't do well in poetry and novel writing. They typically tend to reply to texts with one word. For the same reasons you wouldn't enter your guy in a novel-competition, avoid the texting to "spice" things up. Guy's don't enjoy writing. Guys are far more into the visual thing. Ask him to send you a nude of him in return to your texts, maybe he will find that more interesting than having to text a reply to you. Or do a deal: you send him sexy photoes and he can work on typing things back to you as a challenge.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Maybe , he is in a dilemma ..LOL! It's a minefield to him and he does not know how to handle it.
He could be wondering what was your motive and how will he reply you ? He needs more time to think of an answer or whether he should reply you or not?
Maybe, you need to ask him if he received that sexy texts or not?
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (22 March 2010):
 maybe the textes you are sending him arent as sexy as he wants them to be or maybe he doesnt know what to reply to them with
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (22 March 2010):
Hmmm usually guys are pretty responsive to that. I could only assume that maybe he's unsure of what to say back. I've had boyfriends send me sexy texts before but I didn't know what to say back or I was afraid of what I would say would look stupid or they wouldn't like it.
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