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My boyfriend can't get an erection.... is he not turned on?

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Question - (11 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2007)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend can't get an erection. Does that also mean that he can't get turned on? I mean, is it possible to be turned on and be without an erection?

When we're kissing and stuff it sometimes gets really 'hot and heavy' and I get turned on but because he can't get hard doesn't that mean he doesn't get turned on at all? I'm so confused.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

It is possible to be extremely turned on and not get an erection just because your worried about not getting one, very similar to coming to quickly because he's worried about it.

If he's all over you (hot and heavy)he's more than likely turned on, it's not you.

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2007):

Peterk5699 agony auntIt sounds like your boyfriend has become impotent (not important). I'm sre know what it means but if not it 's where a man is unable to get an erection even when turned on.

There are certain types of "Medication" which can help with this. I believe Zinc is one I'm not sure of the others. Sorry but I'm sure other aunts and uncles will know what can help.

Hope this helped!!

The Pete

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A female reader, JustABittenKitten United States +, writes (11 August 2007):

JustABittenKitten agony auntwell to be honest. No that doesn't mean hes not turned on....well...i guess to justify that statement i will give you my experience.

so my now x-bf and i were fooling around. and well his body just wouldn't make his blood rush to his penis.........so no erection..and well....the best spots on a guy are his neck and earlobe.....uh..well.. i unno what else to say..but its happened to me before. and i was sorta shocked. and thought it was something i did..or wasn't doing...and my x said that wasn't the case....but who knows he coulda been lying to me....

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