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writes:Hi I'm 22 and need some help. In July of 08 I found out I was pregnant. When I told my mom she went off and told me my life was over and I wouldn't be able to do the things I wanted. So after telling me this I kinda started freaking out even more than I was when I found out. So I told my grandma and she told me she couldn't believe I would let that happen when there is birth control and all that which made it OH so much better. My boyfriend wanted me to have it he was excited and so was his family. But I freaked out majorly. I broke up with him and got an abortion behind his back. I killed his baby and I couldn't tell you how much I hurt now. I had made a huge mistake and regret it every day. I found out a couple weeks ago I'm pregnant again. I'm so scared telling my mom and grandma that they are gonna scare me again. How do I tell them, but I want to have it. I'm scared.... My boyfriend and I fight constantly, I'm also scared I'm gonna being a baby into a horrible relationship. But I'm scared to do it on my own too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): Well this is the second time now, I have my first baby too when i was on your age, my parents never help me, father of my baby never help me" instead left me and left all responsabilities on me.,It means Im on my own" and that is really killing me untill now.. because everything is not on plan and we" woman is always alone in every decisions., I guess you have to start to face the real life now.. You still have 8 months more to prepare.. Just be strong., I wish you all the luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): I would either leave him or abort. You shouldn't bring a baby into a violent relationship. You're parents haven't disowned you so I wouldn't worry too much, there will be a lot of initial shock but things should improve over time. But it's him or the baby, or neither. You shouldn't have both because it is just preparing for disaster.
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