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*weetsugarpie
writes:So in December, my baby and i stopped talking because he refused to see me the first week i came back home from school and it had been 3 months since the last time i had seen him. He was busy with his brother who also came from London to spend Christmas break wit him. I got really upset and didn't want to talk to him. And i stopped talking to him and now its June 17th its his birthday actually and i greeted him and his only response was thank you with a smiley face and totally ignored me after!! i was invited to his birthday party by his friend not him. I really love him and i don't know what to do and how to make him want to talk to me again
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): If he was trying to spend time with his brother who only had a short break to spend with him, then I think that's fair. You went three months without talking just because of that??
Are you sure you're still in a relationship?
And what do you mean he ignored you. You texted him, he texted back, and then what? Did you text him again and he didn't say anything? If you didn't text him again, then he didn't really ignore you. If you did text him, then what did you say?
My guess is that he was angry that you didn't understand why he wanted to spend time with his brother and then refused to talk to him becuase of it.
So I think that if you want to work this out you need to do it person to person or at least by talking over the phone.
Please let me know if i've in any way misunderstood you.
~sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): well it has be so long since you didnt talk to him why didnt you try to make things good between you too when you were first fight not after such a long time thats must be what he's thinking , any way at least now you tried and you attended his party now it comes his turn if he wont make any move just forget about him , good luck
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 He obviously doesnt want to talk to you because he no longer has any feelings for you and so he's tried to cut you out of his life, hes done it the coward way. If you really must know then confront him about it.
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