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writes: I just recently started seeing my boss. He keeps asking me out, but I feel like I'm using him, not for money or anything like that, but for the attention I get from him. The reason I haven't said yes about dating him is, one I'm still in love with my ex, even though it has to be over because the relationship was dangerous, and the major reason, my boss is a couple months older than my dad. I'm just not sure what to do, help me.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (23 May 2005):
 Keep to your original plan. Refrain from saying yes to your employer.You give reasons as to why you shouldn't go out with him. You aren't over your ex and the age difference feels too much. You haven't given any reasons why you should go out with him so this must tell you something.Perhaps it would be best if you kept your relationship with your boss as strictly business, at least until you fel emotionally ready to be with someone else. The age difference doesn't necessarily have to matter if you really care for someone but in your instance, you don't seem to be ready for more personal reasons.Wait until you feel more emotionally steady before embarking on another relationship.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): NEVER date your boss. It is ALWAYS a mistake. If you still have feelings for your ex that play a part in any other dating scenario, dont date till those feeling are dealt with. It is only fair to yourself and the guys in question.
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