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writes: I'm in a difficult situation, I went out and had a few drinks with my boss one night. One thing led to another and she ended up coming back to my place, we made-out but I didn't want to take it any further just yet because we were both drunk and it didn't feel right.After I hadn't heard from her for a couple of days I sent her a message asking if she felt like meeting up again, another two days passed with no response so I sent her another message asking what was wrong. She called me up and shouted at me, saying that I was accusing her of ignoring me, she said it was 'too complicated'.A few days later I sent her a message apologising for the arguement and asking if we could just forget about it, she didnt reply. From what I've heard from other people at work she is still pissed at me for some reason.I dont know what to do, if she isnt interested then thats fine but how am I supposed to work with her now? Especially if I dont know what I've done wrong and she wont even talk to me?
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reader, tux  +, writes (3 April 2006):
 Well there are a couple of reasons for this behavior I can think of.
A) She may have realised what you two have done and is embarrassed about it and just wants to forget about it. and when she sees or hears from you it reminds her of it.
B) or. Perhaps she has feelings for you and is afraid of where it'll go. and is trying to hold it back because she is your boss.
Both perfectly reasonable to me. Though it could be something else. I would problaly just let her blow off her steam about it on her own time. most likely this whole situation will come to pass. It's kind of hard though when she doesn't want to talk to you about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): you need to let your boss cool down and wait for her to talk to you as you dnt want to upset her any more especially if your job is important to you as it could make things really difficult for you at work when the time is right organise to meet your boss in neutral place and sit and chat then ask her what is it you have done wrong it just be her feeling rejected all the best and good luck .... topaz...
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