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My bfs past is putting me off sex and getting me down!!

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Question - (20 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend has a past of a lot of sex with different girls.

I have been with him over a year and love him more than anything, but thinking of him doing with me what he has done wiv all those other girls is makeing me feel down, n not wanting to sleep with him, i want some advice on how to forget about this, as he tries his hardest to help me when i feel low about this but nothing seems to help me!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2006):

It's comforting to know that it's not just men who suffer from this problem. I'm assuming you think of sex as something special and haven't slept with a lot of people yourself? I wish there were more girls like you in the world.

See this message thread:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-cant-i-get-my-gfs-past-sex-life-out-of-my-head.html

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A female reader, chachacha United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2006):

Why are you focusing on this?

Did you want to go out with a man who was a virgin?

It sounds like you have a confidence issue - why don't you share it with him, and have him confidence you that he loves YOU NOW, and that his past is irrelevant?

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