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female
age
30-35,
*attie90
writes:hi all....i have a question ok so ive been working my ass off in getting his trust back and every single time he starts trusting me again something or someone says something about me that makes him not want to trust mewhat should i do because i want him 2 trust me but when things keep on happening it makes it impossible! ill give you a scenario he called me up yelling at me because he heard from his ex that i was talking to this guy jordan(we'll call him that) who ive never met and nor do i want to meet and its my boyfriends ex gfs ex boyfriend if that makes any sense but he told my bfs ex that ive been talking to him and he started saying all of this mean stuff to her and saying that i said it so she texted my bf saying please call me its urgent so he calls her and she tells him what just happened and thats when he called me yelling at me and today was a good day me and my boyfriend were hanging out having fun then he went home and thats when it all happened. i dont understand why it happens help me! plz
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reader, chinky +, writes (24 April 2008):
Must i admit that once the trust is lost,for males and females, gaining that trust back is a true pain in the ass.
Most relationships are based on trust, trusting that significant other with everything, and anything.
Once the trust is lost, all hell breaks loose.
i used to have the same problem with my ex boyfriend, i have alot of guy friends, and he would always think that i would cheat on him with any guy that would come up to me. it became such an issue, that we broke up.
my current relationship, is working alot better, the secret is to always tell the truth.no matter how bad it may be. Because girl, if this boy really loves you,then nothing, nor anyone should get in the way.
honestly, if he doesnt trust you, then either hes letting other people get to him, or he just wants you kissing ass,to gain his trust back.
BE straight forward with him, let him know why you choose him over any other guy, make him feel special,guys love all the attention.let him know how you feel.
*hope this helps =)
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